The lady is dying
It is a known fact that words pass between languages exactly or with slight variations. Such words have entered our language that we cannot believe that they are French, English, Arabic or Persian. Words such as pier, cement, seagull, barber, service, detail, leader are now from us.
This generation will not be able to erase the word corona from its memory for many years. Where did an epidemic take us from and where did it take us? We learned terms about health that we don't need to know. In the economy, we experienced the most painful expression of the difficult day. Social life was upset.
Although it is not understood from the beginning of the article, the main subject of this article is the change in social life. We found it difficult to keep up with the change that started in the last years of the last century and continued in the first two decades of this century. Sociologists, psychologists, social scientists and any author or scientist with knowledge of the subject; They wrote and explained the damages of the dissolution of the family structure, the weakening of kinship ties, and the ending of neighborly relations. We will have misunderstood the information age that no one could catch up with our pace in change, except for information.
The only constant is change. I don't have much objection to this, but the changes had to spread over a period of time and be guided without breaking the chains. Unfortunately, the grandfather can understand half of the words of his young grandson. Come from dm, squeal, okey, sent emoji, my new nikne. Grandfather feels like he is living the afterlife before he dies. Kinship is already over. Who uncle who still will be forgotten soon. We will remove the neighbor's neighbor's needy phrase to the museum. If we forget to talk even when chatting in the family is made over the phone, our difference from the first people will be a change in clothing and shape.
It was a microbe called "covid19" that added salt and pepper to it. We all experienced the sadness of not being able to go to school, the psychological effects of being able to go out in limited times, the sadness of not being able to shake hands or hug anyone because of the virus infection, and the pain of not being able to kiss the hand of the parents.
We missed the taste of tea, the sake of coffee, the joy of crowded breakfasts and meals, the sound of okay played in coffee houses, the fun of picnics, the pleasure of the Turkish bath, park, restaurant and many other things.
In the holidays, whose taste started on the eve, instead of joy, sadness came and we cried. We couldn't even attend the funeral of our friends with whom we spent years together, and we died. We saw the look of your uncle over the age of 65, who could not attend the Friday prayer, at those who were praying from behind bars, if we hadn't seen it.
The lady is dying, the bey is dying, the family is dying, the kinship is dying, the friendship is dying, the neighborhood is dying, the love and respect is dying, the conversation is dying, in short, nothing will remain.
We either know the value of living now or we think we live without realizing that we are zombies. Although it is very bad, I hope covid19 will allow us to reconnect with our good, beautiful personal and social characteristics.