Little Things, Unhappy Marriages
Divorces are looking for a criminal as a reason for divorce. Irresponsible and indifferent behavior of spouses, maltreatment, physical or psychological violence, bad habits, drinking, gambling, emotional relationship cheating, disrespectful treatment of the spouses' families, intervention of the family of the spouses, intervention of the close environment, frequent contact with their friends, neglect of home , indifference, failure to fulfill domestic duties and responsibilities, lack of care for children, lack of self-care, personality conflict, power conflict, lying, stubbornness, jealousy, decrease or complete loss of love and respect, problems regarding sexual life, cultural differences, life view, lifestyle, age of marriage, consanguineous marriage, not knowing a spouse before marriage, education level, realizing that both parties have different values and life views or they do not have a common life style, such reasons are the reasons for divorce of married couples.
Well, these reasons were not present in old marriages 30 or 40 years ago? Wasn't there an unfavorable situation for them that they said absolutely not? Of course there was. But there was also patience. There were things he struggled with, enduring desperation and despair. Do not tolerate, do not give consent, do not sacrifice yourself for the sake of children.
Actually, there is one thing both married and divorced desires. Peace.
The days pass with intense effort. The problem of subsistence was on both wives' neck. Each expectation is waiting to come true in suspense. So what is expected from marriage?
Male; What do people want when they come home? The wife who watches her way asks for the door to open. Thanks sweet tongue wants to be greeted with a smiling face. He wants peace, food, cleanliness. It requires order. As the head of the family, I have undertaken the livelihood of the house alone, I worked outside and came. My husband should also show moral support at home, give morale, "How are you?" How was your workday, is there any problem? He. These are my expectations from my wife.
I want a single marriage. I want to be together for 50 -60 years. I want to be together for a long time ”
Life conditions are really difficult. For some things, it is necessary to be able to say, "You are not complete too."
Male; Just show me a smiling face, look at the children. Let it be comfortable when you come home. When I come home from work, it is enough to say "welcome". Love, respect, smiling. It doesn't matter if we don't cook, we have breakfast. What I want is a woman who will make me feel good, happy when I come home. Neat groomed wife. Having sincere feelings for his spouse who is attached to his home. Reliable loyal wife who will not be left behind when I go to work.
What does a woman want? Loving wants to be loved. He wants to marry thinking that he will be loved more. It is the dream of every young girl to get married. The woman wants to live this dream as a happy and peaceful family with her children. The husband who has no bad habit of gambling wants to bring bread to his house. The woman wants a spouse with whom she can talk and share her loneliness. She wants to be with her on her bad day just as she is with her on her good day. From the house she entered in her wedding dress